I am convert to the church and I have come to realize that when you are older and single you are looked at like a leper. Before I converted I have very little interest in getting married and now it is every where I turn there are so many bridal shops in Provo it is insane. I haven't even started dating anyone here yet!!!!! I don't think I am defective and I know that I am attractive but  I am also completely  different from a lot of the girls I have met. I also didn't really move to Utah to find a husband I came to find out who I am now that I am completely devoted to Heavenly Father.